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luvhandle14 57M  
705 posts
10/20/2019 4:54 am

Yes, but not that often


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
10/20/2019 5:03 am

A few people who've become close friends in real life? Check

Quite a few acquaintances whom I keep in regular touch with and look forward to seeing in real life when I travel to their city again? Check

A handful of lovers over the years who've taught me all kinds of wonderful things in and out of the bedroom? Check

A double handful of fun dates that didn't go anywhere but were enjoyable company for a few hours? Check

Yup, I'd say I've been wildly successful here!


jogrnm87111 62M

10/20/2019 5:31 am

I have been years ago, but no luck at all recently


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/20/2019 6:00 am

Hmmmm I've met a few over the years.... some I still chat to, some I hope I never see again,,, and probably won't , some who want to meet again after ghosting me
I did me my ex on here,, that lasted 10 years.. most of it pretty shit
So I guess it's a bit hit and miss


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
10/20/2019 6:56 am

I put kinda.

Initially - yes -wildly, but the place has definitely slackened of late. Not sure if it is (incorrect) assumptions ladies make given my age, or if the pool is just fished out, or what.

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bassfisherman0 63M

10/20/2019 6:57 am

people say they want to meet, but never do


LickU4Hours333 52M
31 posts
10/20/2019 7:58 am

Good story and I get points too


roustabout6 68M
328 posts
10/20/2019 8:19 am

Met a couple of times just a one time thing. I'm not young and hung anymore, so one shot is all I get, oh well, thanks for the memories...


Thatcher04354 64M
7 posts
10/20/2019 8:53 am

It depends on your definition of successful. Have I met new people and made new friends- YES. Have I had sex with new people? YES Have I found a long term hook up- NO


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
10/20/2019 8:59 am

Had some success. Went a year meeting up with someone regularly before she called an end to it. So if that one year out of the fifteen or so years I've been on here counts as a success, then yes.

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
10/20/2019 9:18 am

Yes, just blogging away and loving your Blog!!


Mr00Fun4U 64M

10/20/2019 9:18 am

Aaahhh no luck yet in physically meeting someone. Been close a few times so that's what keeps me going...the thrill of the hunt/chase.

Plus I have met through correspondence and become friends with some tremendous Women. That is plus/benefit that I never even saw coming my way.

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looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
10/20/2019 11:15 am

I'll say kinda. Met a few I had sex with. Met a few I would not have sex with.
A hell of a lot of effort with very little results.


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
10/20/2019 12:40 pm

I'm not really looking to meet anyone from here. I use it mainly for the blogs and as a time waster. Plus the women I'd be interested in are hundreds of miles away.


Get2Living 63M

10/20/2019 6:48 pm

Does take a lot of effort. Just trying to find one regular.


19me66 M
19 posts
10/20/2019 8:27 pm

I have chatted (a lot) but when it was time to go f2f got ghosted. Very frustrating. Much more difficult in here for a straight guy.


neednewfun50 66M
141 posts
10/20/2019 9:05 pm

maybe once every year and half or so get lucky but mostly just a lot of fakes flakes and women who just want attention without ever truly planning to meet


Yours_4A_knight 59M

10/20/2019 10:24 pm

I have cyber met people mostly . . . most of the women with whom I seem to share a mutual connection seem to all live on the far side of mountains or oceans if not both, I have met a few local women and they have been fine people just not someone that I am attracted to.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


tryme992012 64M
49 posts
10/20/2019 11:23 pm

3yes once in awhile seems most women just want to chat not meet.


willlickualot 60M
35 posts
10/21/2019 2:19 am

yes I met a few women on here an we are good friends


MomoBear1 73M/109F
345 posts
10/21/2019 2:29 am

We have been very successful her in meeting men for her, coupled for us both and naughty bifem for our wild sex fun


newportnewsman69 42M

10/21/2019 4:49 am

Yes iI've been successful on here. Met some wonderful ppl on here.


hung8826 58M

10/21/2019 5:16 am

Been successful however most people are to far away. Also there are a lot of fake profiles and also people who are not serious about meeting.


JJPark2018 56M/44F

10/21/2019 5:25 am

Awesome supply of guys for my Wife. It is required she is a nympho..
Fairly good supply of Couples for full swap.


iajo60 63M/60F

10/21/2019 7:17 am

It's like anywhere there are people just trolling but can't put everyone in that group


iajo60 63M/60F

10/21/2019 7:19 am

good for you wish you the best here


docotis53 70M
246 posts
10/21/2019 7:54 am

Few and far between


tryusfororal2019 67M/57F
134 posts
10/21/2019 8:23 am

We are working a little closer to find our lucky guy.


stilshoots 77M
41 posts
10/21/2019 8:49 am

Only met with one woman and she wants to meet again . Most women on here a FAKE . Have chatted with several but no meets


rebelram999999 54M

10/21/2019 9:00 am

Yes i have been successful, not as much as I have hoped, but I have had a couple of great meets and looking for many more!

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ALPHASonly 69M

10/21/2019 9:32 am

Some flakes and some jack-offs, not to many serious men. Every now and then there is a strong possible opportunity. Since I have been on this site I have found one man for multiple encounters, lately nothing.


Nkdpkaymates2 59M/56F

10/21/2019 9:50 am

Yes, i have met some that I only did once and some that i have fucked on numerous occasions.


DiscreteEscape4U 48M
28 posts
10/21/2019 9:56 am

Met some good people, and some that seemed promising, but not that ended up with a meet.☹️ With a standard membership, it's tough to even start talking...


icecubeheaven 43M
25 posts
10/21/2019 10:17 am

Met a few and had fun, but also been stood up a few times as well.. depends how much effort you want to put in and in some cases how far your prepared to travel


PumpkinSpice6 40F  
219 posts
10/21/2019 10:58 am

Very successful.


utfrangrl 49F
267 posts
10/21/2019 12:56 pm

Yes have met up with a lot of site singles and couples.


aimtoplease1033 63M

10/21/2019 1:16 pm

Met 4 different women over the years that were very fun and taught me several very enjoyable fetishes. There were a few wierdo's inbetween that I did not care to meet again after a meet-and-greet.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
10/21/2019 1:35 pm

Yes but success requires work and patience, too many liars, cheaters , flakes and virtual seekers. Real and genuine seems rare, now mostly here for blogging and entertainment. Guess too many liars and no shows, hard to keep being optimistic. How about yourself?


happyenigma 70M

10/21/2019 1:41 pm

Not a whole lot of response, but I attribute that due to the fact that I am only a standard member. So I'm planning to take the plunge to Gold status. After two months I will compare the results and make the determination whether to stay or go. I must say that I have been on other sites that response was crazy BUT I figure 90% were fake profiles or bots. But was free, entertaining and not one hookup.


happyenigma 70M

10/21/2019 1:48 pm

1 seeking 1 is 100% correct but it is not entirely men who do this. They all get caught up in their stories. Of course I had a very well disciplined life that was based in the truth and keeping secrets (Not Mine)
Personally, now that I'm 65 now, I really can't spare the brain cells to remember a lie, so I continue my life of not telling them.


MaxVonHoroschau 50M
20 posts
10/21/2019 2:03 pm

So many of the profiles are fakes, and so many people claim to be one thing, but they’re not. It’s worse when people don’t honestly fill out their profiles. And they’re the ones that tend to be either 0 to wanting to get married in two emails, or they’re just plain asshats.


skypilotc140 56M
95 posts
10/21/2019 2:27 pm

I have had success. But it is only occasional. The changes with the site have definitely had a negative impact.


goforit6_29127 65M  
29 posts
10/21/2019 4:29 pm

Yes I have met a few ladies on here and they were all great people. most were great in bed and a few we didn't get that far but still chatted after we had meet.


Fero4930 55M

10/21/2019 4:45 pm

Yes I met with efe people


TallTattooedDude 56M  
39 posts
10/21/2019 6:17 pm

If You are a straight single Guy looking for ladies You will have better luck going out to bars etc.
Everyone here wants Pussy or Guys that suck dick or take it up the butt and they prefer those ones to have tits whenever possible as well LOL
Nuff Said


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/21/2019 7:28 pm

Depends on your meaning of success or rather how
YOU define it!
In my terms ,yes plenty!

Using more than all the road!


Runaround929 37M

10/21/2019 7:37 pm

Always tougher for a guy


rahulg220 29M

10/21/2019 7:48 pm

not till now


idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
10/21/2019 8:30 pm

I am amused by how often I am asked if I have had any luck on the site, or been successful. I think it's different things for different people.
In the 10 yrs I have been on this site I have met a number of individuals.. if that is successful is up to one's idea of success.
That being said, I met a women here 10 yrs ago and neither of us are bi sexual. Long story short she is no longer on the site, but she has become my best friend, my sister and my family. We have been there for each other through deaths of our mothers, other family members, cheer for each other with the birth of grandchildren, spent holidays together, vacationed and have had girl's getaways when life has been tough. That is my success.

On the other hand, I have had a few FWB's over the years, and for the last three years nothing. I am good with that..


GiveULots06 63M

10/21/2019 8:34 pm

It takes effort? However I have had a little success here.


Spunsubinfl 43M
24 posts
10/21/2019 9:21 pm

I always get flakes WANT TO MEET AN OLDER HUNG DOM BUT.......

Let's fuck


redandfrog 57M
7 posts
10/21/2019 9:33 pm

One needs an absolute large amount of patience


Harlyman54321 50M
79 posts
10/22/2019 12:41 am

Haven't had to much luck. Im bi like both. >>!


idahosmilin 71M
29 posts
10/22/2019 1:23 am

I have met quite a few people from this site. It takes patience some times but it happens. Good luck!!


bigdj001 40M

10/22/2019 1:39 am

Yeah no luck but I sure it's because I can't host


bear29ford69 50M
40 posts
10/22/2019 1:56 am

When the site works right it's a ok site


curiousparty1234 38M
8 posts
10/22/2019 4:27 am

I haven’t had much luck personally, most people that I’ve chatted with end up getting cold feet when the idea of meeting up comes, the mobile chat doesn’t work (and with free members needing to pay to use the chat it really blows), or I can’t even get a “thanks but no thanks” reply to the messages I can get out. Wish they’d reinstate that 3 free chats for standard members


couting_starr 30M
2 posts
10/22/2019 5:21 am

I hope i'll get one soon but its really difficult for a single man to find women on this site specially in India.I have seen women are more frank and straightforward in western countries than in India. I have spent nights over here looking but none of the talks escalated as some are fake and most are money seekers.
I havent known someone who genuinely needs sex on this website till now.
But you must keep trying, may be you get a chance someday.


hillcountryman60 64M
182 posts
10/22/2019 5:22 am

Yes, in the past but lately it seems people are less serious about meeting.


Edua2013sw 57M

10/22/2019 6:43 am

I can't have succes on site never has an encouter only vrtual sex chat


bassfisherman0 63M

10/22/2019 7:34 am

I have not, don't seem like people truly want to meet. everything starts with a cup of coffee. but they only want to say they want to meet when infact they don't


Greatsex4ume2 65M
55 posts
10/22/2019 9:41 am

Had a couple of nice freinds years ago but nothing for a long time as trust seems to be an issue as well as no shows!


maybe1932 69M/55F
44 posts
10/22/2019 10:56 am

Yes we've met four young men. Two didn't get past the met and greet.


strexx670 53M

10/22/2019 11:01 am

mmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmm


wideload888 55M

10/22/2019 11:26 am

Met someone several years ago, but no luck since.

The fault is mostly mine. These days, I'm looking for something closer and easier - I don't have the freedom to meet like I used to.


29HornynBored 39M
16 posts
10/22/2019 12:06 pm

ive had some fun here, i think for whatever reason there are very high expectations for how this will all work out as instant sex.


teboneUP 63M  
46 posts
10/22/2019 12:29 pm

If success is defined as meeting someone on AdultFriendFinder and having sex with them, then yes, I've been successful. I've met and fucked five women from AdultFriendFinder this year and all of them live out of state. I will continue having success because distance never stops me from fucking women who want to meet and fuck. Never has never will.


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
10/22/2019 12:52 pm

I have met and had some great sex with quite a few hot people from the site. Met some awesome hot couples for mmf. Mmmmmm. Some very hot milfs too. Has been fun!


Snow_Thumper37 36M
1 post
10/22/2019 1:40 pm

    Quoting  :

I am responding to hey comment that I sawed while reading through people's comments pertaining to the poll question has anybody actually met anybody on this site and upon me reading what you wrote I felt it my obligation to respond to your many points being made. As follows below is what she wrote, I say she in case anybody else is reading this.

I would be more receptive to meeting if the men on here would put forth more effort than........ hey want to meet up and fuck........ if there's no built in get to know ya time then it just comes off as seeking a woman that does meet up for just sex as a means to the end............. but at least put effort into creating a date night like get food,get pizza delivered or $.99 tacos and movies or listen to music.
A potential partner is not,does not mean that aspect of getting to know some one to perhaps engage in hot sex encounters gets tossed to the side,my belief is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys.

Now I would like to make several points myself.

You are exactly right to want something more. Since when has date night gone out the window to get lucky even try because let's face it there is no underlying obligation that says you have to sleep with somebody. Furthermore how would one expect to get lucky without putting forth the effort like you said or in my case and in some men's cases courting that woman. Any woman worth courting is somebody you would not regret getting in bed with and chances are will get into bed with you. Now I don't know about most but I won't be with somebody unless you're somebody that I could be proud of whether our encounter is a secret or whether we go public with the s*** if I wouldn't take you around my family then I probably don't want to be around you.

With that being said I know I majority of men nowadays don't feel that way they are perfectly happy with f****** a monkey behind closed doors and then later that day hanging out with family friends like they didn't just f*** a monkey 3 hours prior. Date night gives both a chance to gain an attraction EVEN. more attracted to the other person because someone who is just willing to sleep with someone finds no attraction in anything, and honestly that's just unattractive.

Now the way that most men nowadays troll and looking for anybody to f*** is completely fine with fucking anybody because if a man comes on to a woman like that is all he's interested in is fucking what's to make you believe that he's not coming onto every woman like that. If it is that easy to get with a women you really think you were the one guy out of a million profiles that she picked out, I don't think so. She's getting with everybody like that.

Now I love what you said that your belief, "is that the nice guy should ALWAYS get LAID to keep em nice guys. Because I would like to consider myself a nice guy and Imore often than not, have always walked away with a bombshell or even just a downright good girl willing to get down. Maybe not on this site but out in the real world yeah . So It's true nice guys should get laid because that's what keeps us nice and the only time I have really ever turned into an assshole or been rude to somebody is after I have been blown off or used repetitively that's what makes a nice guy turn into an assshole.
But you put it very well, and I figured I'd put in my two cents on the nice guy thing and how nice guys can turn into an assshole with the wrong girl that he may have thought was right. Good comment I was surprised to have had that epiphinal moment while reading it.

Nice guys still do exist we're just hard to find cuz we don't like being around assholes or being turned into one


DiscoverMidlife 58M
124 posts
10/22/2019 4:10 pm

I guess it is open to how you define successful. I have been successful in meeting women. But I have had to put an incredible amount of effort and patience into it. Kinda like any type of dating?


NVHorny 59M
3 posts
10/22/2019 4:15 pm

I have met a couple women and a few couples. I am partial to MFM so it can be slow going.


0ngoingfun4us 39M

10/22/2019 4:21 pm

Only kinda sorta


VAguyFromGA 36M

10/22/2019 5:05 pm

Found some car play but nothing more... too many fakes and bots


Whatsthewait06 61M

10/22/2019 6:48 pm

Yes, I have had some success on here. Not easy, however, it’s not easy out in the real world either.


MFM_lvr 42M

10/22/2019 8:50 pm

Took time, butt yes.


ravennaguy 64M  
3 posts
10/22/2019 8:56 pm

it seems to be mostly bs on this site.


HeavyHitter6901 42M
1 post
10/23/2019 1:11 am

I have been on here over a month and have not had any luck when it seems like i am about to actually meet they get cold feet or they do t just wanna fling like there profile says they want a long term fling or they want more... What is with that?you waant a quikie get a quikie and thats it you want long term anounce that shit inyour profile and stick to it wishy washy people drive me nuts!


1_4agood_time 45M
66 posts
10/23/2019 5:44 am

I find that when its time to actually meet, most women flake out.


Duke4Uonly 69M
2 posts
10/23/2019 6:43 am

I've had some success with hooking up but there are a lot of fakes on here . Women flirt , hot list me , but have no intention of ever meeting .


sassos 57M
41 posts
10/23/2019 7:24 am

Take your time and verify profile/person


albaflying 63M

10/23/2019 9:36 am

Yes I have. Not as often as I would like. Lots of fakes here.


lucasteel78 45M

10/23/2019 12:02 pm

yes and I made myself a night knows fuck me 3 fuck, breakfast and 2 fuck.mmmmmmmmmmmm you make me want so .....


Reynolds221 53M
46 posts
10/23/2019 12:34 pm

I believe there are a lot of fake profiles on here and people just get their jollies out of that.


Oktitman 54M
3 posts
10/23/2019 12:40 pm

I’ve met a few and it was great, but there are tons of flakes and fake profiles. Many of these fake profiles are posted by AdultFriendFinder and they will flirt to keep you interested. There are too many men here and that fucks it up for many of us. The women are being bombarded by these fucktards and makes it difficult.


SGTDBG 61M
6 posts
10/23/2019 3:19 pm

I have found some nice people here and we still keep in touch too Guess I have been very lucky and have even talked to them on the phone too


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
10/23/2019 4:33 pm

I've met some very fine women here !!


mightyswell88 53M

10/23/2019 7:29 pm

I have yet to hook up with anyone. Lots of chatting, and some possible hook ups in the future with some guys I may play with, but certainly no women


DoUIntheButt 41M
118 posts
10/23/2019 8:41 pm

Ehhhhh Kinda!


blademaster70 53M
213 posts
10/23/2019 10:34 pm

I joined back in 2009, and had a lot of success for a few years. The last four years have been hit and miss tho. And with all the recent changes, it's been extremely slow going. Lately I've resorted to more traditional dating sites, seem to have better luck connecting with women there than here.


ur_Black_desire 54M  
57 posts
10/24/2019 1:47 am

I've played with a few connects from here, byt the scene has changed tremendously and meets are slowing up!


luv4me45 59M

10/24/2019 6:31 am

I would like too


louisianafun2 46M
29 posts
10/24/2019 7:21 am

Some real people here but have to wade through all the fakes first..lol


hotredsox67 51M  
151 posts
10/24/2019 8:42 am

id love to try a mfm with a couple lots of guys acting i dont know if i want to jump right into that never tried it before i like women nothing wrong with it though


bear29ford69 50M
40 posts
10/24/2019 9:11 am

A few times, but hard being a basic member, and chat locks up alot on here


lokingforfun82 42M
206 posts
10/24/2019 10:52 am

I guess that depends on you're definition of successful. I've successfully had 2 or 3 successful encounters on here but that's been in the span of at least 15 years. Even when I was a gold member I didn't have much success on here.


matuiori 37M
38 posts
10/24/2019 1:28 pm

He salido solo con una mujer de la pagina y la pasamos muy muy bien


GAguyInVA2019 36M

10/24/2019 6:17 pm

A few chats and car meet up but tons of ghosts and bots lol


castle077 64M

10/24/2019 6:58 pm

not as much as i'd like


passingthrough98 69T  
16 posts
10/24/2019 7:11 pm

way too many game players on here! guys that just want to talk sex while jacking off and never meet. It gets old with that and the rude men. Have met a couple people over the years but not enough to say I have been successful. Guess I am to old for anyone or something.


lookin4herMI 46M
152 posts
10/24/2019 7:56 pm

Yes, but no anytime recently, and with AdultFriendFinder removing member privileges it’s not going to get any better. That’s just one reason why this long time gold member, is no longer gold!


sealand669 57M
1 post
10/24/2019 7:57 pm

The website is a waste of time! I have conversed with 60 to 70 women , and the majority of them were from Amsterdam, and Africa!! The site is inundated with fakes! Poor job of managing !!!


Danny65432198 35M
84 posts
10/24/2019 8:19 pm

I have and wanna be with wiitb u

Lookig for pussy


brandini734 29M
179 posts
10/24/2019 8:51 pm

I have in the past but not recently since I stopped being gold. However, I still keep contact with people I already met.


aki0804 38M
75 posts
10/25/2019 1:20 am

Most females and CPL are fake and those not are hungry for money


shoe14 57M  
222 posts
10/25/2019 3:56 am

lot of fakes


Kimpasse 48M

10/25/2019 4:58 am

been on here 2 months and had sex with six different people I think it totally depends on the area and your age and how good you look. You literally need to stand out from the crowd. Everybody just has their cock posted and that's it you have to stand out to attract. People aren't that desperate to meet cock pic.


Happyfunz2 63M

10/25/2019 6:12 am

success here for me anyway is determined by what I come here for. I come here to make friends and have fun. If something more happens then good. I think there is an unrealistic expectation on the part of many who come here and that messes with what they would call success.


Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
10/25/2019 6:15 am

I have met some very nice people here ans had some beautiful relationships. Since craigslist shut down this site has changed.


Handleyankee3 34M

10/25/2019 6:19 am

Would luv to meet u


lucasteel78 45M

10/25/2019 7:23 am

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


Casquetin14 50M

10/25/2019 7:31 am

So hard for standard members am real, polite, fun and love sex! What else I need? I guess pay for gold membership! unless am doing something wrong also


kella200 43M
63 posts
10/25/2019 10:17 am

Yes definitely been successful, got laid a few times , just wish more women were on here xx 😘


2canchewtoo 60M  
25 posts
10/25/2019 11:29 am

No but as a member not paying it is damn near impossible to do anything..


Showyouinsac 50M
78 posts
10/25/2019 11:44 am

I’ve had mixed Successs. Was easier before all the lame changes around here. Tough to connect now


GAtechGuyInVA 36M

10/25/2019 3:39 pm

had some car play but tons of "just talkingers", friend collectors, fake bots, scams, etc


Reynolds221 53M
46 posts
10/25/2019 6:15 pm

Too many fake profiles..


oralfun2dayforus 55M

10/25/2019 6:46 pm

not so much with the women but mostly with guys wanting to get sucked off.


1quietguy35404 75M

10/25/2019 7:34 pm

I talked to a lot of people yo. But when it came to meets nothing


Slash56925 64M  
11 posts
10/25/2019 8:34 pm

After two years I met 1 real woman in person and about 5 that are friendly around 30 scammers hundreds of no show fakes .


RICARDO______ 42M
22 posts
10/25/2019 9:06 pm

full fakes


KJM65 54M
32 posts
10/25/2019 9:11 pm

Okay, I've had good success on here. Yes there are some talkers, with no follow through. Which is why you have to weed out the talkers. As a single man, you have to know that you can't run amok. Some times you have to laid back in the cut


IMaMagikman 38M
119 posts
10/25/2019 10:04 pm

Yes. With 1 person and no comaints at all. It just run it's course


wanttoplay858 66M/68F  
14 posts
10/25/2019 11:34 pm

It was easier before when there were more memebers and easier to contact eachother


Chasbull 33M

10/26/2019 5:54 am

Been on for 8 years. Have met with 1 person. She was incredible!! But most everyone gets cold feet when it's time to meet


tryme992012 64M
49 posts
10/26/2019 7:25 am

I have had success on here. But a lot of it is just talk and they really dont want to meet. Seems like success comes every few months.


56creampielover 67M
140 posts
10/26/2019 9:38 am

a lot of talk with no action


Spidey604 46M
82 posts
10/26/2019 9:55 am

When i was gold, way better luck though...but have found a regular fwb...hot


14u2hav3fun 50M

10/26/2019 11:32 am

I've had some success here but still looking.


allaboutfun250 55M
14 posts
10/26/2019 11:47 am

Chatted with lots of cool people and canned with some also by have yet to meet up with anyone from this site.


Sugarcookie478 52F  
33 posts
10/26/2019 4:13 pm

I’ve made some great connections.


redy2plzu6969 70M/61F  
71 posts
10/26/2019 7:57 pm

Very disappointed in this site. Only one connection in 8 years for us. Lots of flirts and interested people but too may fakes and flakes. Too many men on this site.


MerlynWantsYou 68M

10/26/2019 8:36 pm

nada ... but I'm at the age where anyone near me is just not interested. C'est le Vie.


2beusedtoo2 65M
120 posts
10/26/2019 8:48 pm

Well 5 yrs and only 2 meets 1 not bad and one that was terrible none was what im looking for .all good ones are players or AdultFriendFinder only sends posts from to far away.but check me out im avaible to meet


DAfwb269 57M

10/26/2019 9:48 pm

Have I been on any meets, no. I have made contact but have not met up with anyobe. For a site that is suppose to help you meet people this site doesn't do a very good job. There are false profiles and it seems the site sends profile views and hot lists notices. When on IM there are very few people that want to talk. Also I have contacted a couple of women that want money in order to meet. If I wanted a hooker I would go and pay for one. Now I have meet a couple of women and had good conversations with them an really would like to meet them, but we haven't worked things outto meet.


Mr2please2 62M  
63 posts
10/26/2019 9:52 pm

A little success..too many fakes... too many cpls want on spur and unwilling to communicate except for email only...TokenBlackchick is right..lol had better luck on Yahoo IM and the old Craighslist!


ramiro150982 41M
12 posts
10/26/2019 11:18 pm

muy de acuerdo


redsled361000 64M
272 posts
10/26/2019 11:23 pm

Nope talked to a few no hits


N0nSt0p06 62M

10/27/2019 12:27 am

I have had some success.


Igasu 42M
16 posts
10/27/2019 1:42 am

I met a friend once


bollymorningwood 39M
12 posts
10/27/2019 1:58 am

no


hardtoholdtime3 64M

10/27/2019 6:17 am

Met some great people over all was real good


StillBoredinTx 47M

10/27/2019 7:46 am

Not in years


BBC6949 38M

10/27/2019 8:30 am

Had few meets nothing recently in yrs I think women get cold feet or make stupid excuses


skinnydpr56 67M

10/27/2019 9:26 am

met maybe 5 people since 2005.Most people that look at my profile are hundreds of miles away.Why would they look?I dont look at profiles that are more than 50 miles and thats a stretch.This is not a dating site.A friend met and dated over 300 women on the regular dating sites,most were very very beautiful.During that time i was married and now im too "old" to try.I was a model in the 90's and was able to date beautiful women,but this site is not a place to meet to marry,i think.If people would meet a regular nice person instead of the best of the best looking,meet in public first,more could actually meet.im going to join my friends site soon.


ltfy9006 50M
31 posts
10/27/2019 10:07 pm

This use to be a good place to meet but not any more


Hardick2cumonn 34M

10/27/2019 11:53 pm

Sometimes yes


doingitwhenwecan 64M
4 posts
10/28/2019 7:44 am

not really but i keep looking maybe soon


chet571957 66M  
32 posts
10/28/2019 8:03 am

No real meetings. A couple of no-shows Seems most would like to but can't bring themselves to actually do it. In 10 years, I haven't figured out if its just cheap entertainment or if no-one can find what they really want.


Openallthetime00 54M
5 posts
10/28/2019 8:11 am

Had some meets all good but mostly flakes and hookers


WLVgentleman 94M

10/28/2019 8:29 am

A little bit of "success", but especially in the last couple of years this site has really gone downhill. I do like to watch a few cams on occasion, and enjoy chatting with a very select group of long-time "friends", but otherwise this site is now primarily populated with fakes and scammers. It's almost not worth the effort any more.


Imapig54 69M

10/28/2019 9:36 am

It's been awesome


Sexczy69 70M  
3703 posts
10/28/2019 10:12 am

Met my loving wife on this site and we are still together after 10 years....


aniceride 53M  
117 posts
10/28/2019 11:03 am

not to blow my own horn but yes i've been very blessed.my meets are mostly with couples and have been with 22 in the last 13yrs from here.


Discreetmeetfish 56M
41 posts
10/28/2019 12:54 pm

like most who aren't liars on here there isn't much opportunity. to many snobs. but there is still hope


Disciple8383 40M

10/28/2019 2:13 pm

Zero after 7 or so years, but to be honest, almost all nearby accounts have proven to be fake ones.

That said, most normal dating sites are the same as well.


TheBest002018 40F
2 posts
10/28/2019 3:43 pm

I have been successful in meeting guys and having a great time with them but NOT for my main reason in being a member on this site.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
10/28/2019 4:54 pm

I have meet a few on here but its not what I am looking for here. I am not giving up either. Just have not found the right one for that connection.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


patferro81 42M
19 posts
10/28/2019 5:03 pm

I had my good moments


sexisfun49127 54M
88 posts
10/28/2019 5:07 pm

the site used to be alot of fun,,hooked up with some great people,,now it seems alot of bots and gamees


14u2hav3fun 50M

10/28/2019 5:40 pm

I've had success here, but still looking for that one woman out here for me.


Acuplovin 54M
22 posts
10/28/2019 9:02 pm

Have had a limited amount of success, maybe 10 or so over 10-15 yrs but they have all been wonderful and giving women


LetsGetItGoing13 63M

10/28/2019 11:03 pm

It does take some effort and patience!


manda745 41F
18 posts
10/29/2019 6:23 am

no, too many fakes on here, and they keep making the site worse!!!


Kenoshaguy69124 39M
13 posts
10/29/2019 6:33 am

I have found my share of good fun


TallFit4Fun69 56M

10/29/2019 9:10 am

Not yet but Im hopeful soon


1951Friday 72M
24 posts
10/29/2019 12:27 pm

It sort of depends on what you consider success.


virgin348 32M
14 posts
10/29/2019 1:17 pm

    Quoting  :

What you want me to upload a pic of cash i got plenty of money. i just don't want to pay 120 a year for gold. if most the accounts are bots or fakes like some people are saying.


J3c52re777wO419 47M

10/30/2019 2:48 am

Just came across this site gonna keep my fingers crossed


MoreAgainPlease 63M

10/30/2019 4:54 am

I have been successful here. Not much, however did make a couple of great ongoing connections. Takes time, patience, and lots of looking. Not easy at all.


Wilson15818 48M

10/30/2019 5:07 am

I've been on and off the site for YEARS with very minimal success. I had a field job for a very long time and thought the site could be a magic bullet for me but it was a 99% waste of time. I'm off the road now so thought I'd retry my luck but as another member said it's really just a form of entertainment at this point. I'll probably shut my account down after this go round.


ezsuckfuck4u 56M

10/30/2019 7:18 am

I have chatted with so many but when it came down to meeting me they always never showed up or just lied about having fun with another bi man like me. I know that I am very inexperienced but I am very clean of all diseases and std's and am also very submissive so men can do whatever they want with me to make them cum. I have sucked cock a few times and I loved doing it and taking it all the way down my throat and having a man face fuck me until he pumps my throat full of his cum loads which I love to taste and swallow for him too! I really need someone to use my body so we both can cum and enjoy each others bodies, men, women, or even couples I would love to submit to and be used by all! So please cum and use my body and make me your personal cum slut and make cum deposits where ever you want to as I worship your bodies! Bi for now ezsuckfuck4u.


Sooperguyy 55M

10/30/2019 4:41 pm

I’ve met about 6 women, over 6 years. Most are looking for an ego boost in my option which is a shitty way to treat people. Plus all the fake profiles and scammers.

One woman in particular I meet with fairly often and she’s beautiful, sexy and classy. Yes, bragging a bit but it takes a long time to find that needle in a haystack!


AllIsPossible06 63M

10/30/2019 7:17 pm

Be active, be patient and don’t be pushy.


lukn4only1 57M

10/30/2019 9:26 pm

This site is full of fakes! My time is up the 1st! Never again!


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
10/30/2019 11:37 pm

I have been successful a number of times with ladies from here. I have one from here that I see every Sunday.


virgin348 32M
14 posts
10/30/2019 11:40 pm

I guess it's really what you make of it. i thought it was a waste of time at first but i've had more success the last few days. no meets yet but closer than i was before it just takes time and patience.


3forfun1954 70M/59F  
2 posts
10/31/2019 12:28 am

I cant receive webcams as a gold member. i complained they cant figure it out they have me blocked for some strange reason .My membership ends soon I hope there is a better site than this on the internet


bisucker1962 61M

10/31/2019 3:58 am

tons of looks and chat...hookups quite rare....scheduling and location/hosting are key limiters...but i keep trying...peace!


TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
10/31/2019 5:45 am

Oh yeah!
Not easy but worth it.


brow6902 59M
99 posts
10/31/2019 1:11 pm

There is fun to be had, but few and far between good ones!


Slash56925 64M  
11 posts
10/31/2019 9:36 pm

small town and age = not much happening


fuks4u2tonight 54M
5 posts
11/1/2019 3:07 pm

met some wonderfull women from here ... xx

Loves them Big n Bouncy .... ..... xx


bigthrills7 59M  
6 posts
11/1/2019 3:41 pm

I've been a gold member for decades it seems and I just keep renewing based on hope! ha

I've met dozens over the years, MM situation, some hot , some not. It's very time consuming to meet and can honestly say, I haven't met a guy from AdultFriendFinder that I continually see and have made a good relationship/friendship since I've been on here. Could be me or could be them, not blaming anyone.

Funny how I had much better luck before we had computers and the only way to find sex was those Swinger ads found at your local adult bookstore. You answered ads and had to mail back your letter, a SASE and $1. You had better luck dealing with snail mail than you do today! I still have sex with 2 guys I met that way and that was the '90's! Times have changed!

The site is shadowy when it comes to online security I'm now finding out. Just got McAffee for protection.

I also believe that AdultFriendFinder uses deleted member accts to fluff things up. Like on the IM.

But really, for a single bi guy I think it's the only game in town so I'm staying.


17mustangman 49M
3 posts
11/1/2019 4:08 pm

I have had a few great times from here and even turned 1 into a long term thing on my 1st account. You gotta be a gentleman straight up, if your single, your single, if your married say it. So many fakes or cheaters that everybody is hesitant about contacting. I always offer to pay on every date even thought some women prefer to pay there share and continue to chat or go out. Just be yourself and say it like it is. J


fishersman68 55M
48 posts
11/1/2019 4:11 pm

seriously? there are actual women here?


gsochillin 36M

11/2/2019 12:41 am

over time ive met a few ppl from here that I would have never met irl. i like it i think of it as automating my love life. i think they should go back to a point allowance system so that all the new members and people who want to try out the site can be successful with it. having to pay for gold twice to have backwards messaging abilities is a lil ehhh.


HAWLEYPL 75M
71 posts
11/2/2019 11:06 am

been doin this stuff for ten years now. Scored once w/ Ashly Madison, then switched to this site and have managed five more w/ one being an occasional stop. Have not paid a cent but persevered through all the changes. It is after doing that you can find out what's real and what is Memorex???

Now, it seems to be IM, that the site is managing. I'm spending points, and members that I chat with never receive the notice. There appears to be a delay from information from IM, to information on the page I am currently on, and I can no longer refresh the IM like I used to be able to do??
Best of luck and fuck for free. It's God Given!


icecubeheaven 43M
25 posts
11/2/2019 11:27 am

I have had some good experiences and some bad... and some no shows as well


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/2/2019 11:48 am

If you're looking for an honest guy then just keep track of
those who said they haven't met anyone.Now if you're looking for
an honest woman just keep track of the ones who said yes!

Using more than all the road!


fishersman68 55M
48 posts
11/2/2019 12:11 pm

no but still looking for that one who wants to meet on a regular basis


14sum69fun 55M

11/2/2019 5:36 pm

Good chat connections with a few people, but typically no one wants to meet in person.. 1 every few years or so. Luck is slim to none...


topd3 58M
13 posts
11/2/2019 10:34 pm

I have been successful a few times.


Jrod_153 39M

11/3/2019 4:43 am

Kind of successful . Ive met only a few women on here and ive been on here for more than 5 years lol. When i mean a few i mean a few


howdydoodyXLII 52M  
43 posts
11/3/2019 4:52 am

In the early days of being on here, I had a few meet ups with local women. Still friends with the first one I met, but she met someone else and got married. I have a friend i met thru AdultFriendFinder, but we never hooked up. A few sexual encounters here and there, but the well has run a little dry. It has been well over a year. It is harder to communicate on this site being a standard member than it used to be. Then you come across the fakes who try to con you into sending money. Trying to find better options for hooking up.


SteppinUp06 62M

11/3/2019 5:15 am

I have been successful on here as recently as last week. There are many fakes on here, however there is fun to be had as well.


cudlstud 71M

11/3/2019 6:32 am

No ,lot of fakes and only a few and no meetups. I must scare them.??


007pgh 72M

11/3/2019 7:05 am

I met someone on another site about 15 years ago. We started out just being FWB but slowly it started just seeing each other. Then she moved in with me after about 2 years we decieded to get married that lasted 11 years but sadly I lost her in March of this year.


pretty2263 55T  
14 posts
11/3/2019 7:34 am

No. My location really. lol


coffeebeans60 63M
33 posts
11/3/2019 6:02 pm

I agree with most commenters that there are a lot of fakes on here


sexynfun01 59M/52F

11/3/2019 9:55 pm

We live in a great area for swinging


lokillo7412 49M
17 posts
11/4/2019 6:24 pm

It was better a few years ago. There are too many fakes nowadays. That sucks because there aren't no more free chats per day for non-paid members.


InLoveWeTrust3 43M/41F
19 posts
11/6/2019 2:06 am

It was better years ago, when you didn't need points to chat


wantingmore40216 64M

11/7/2019 9:06 am

I've had some success, not as much as I'd like.


Santascumming2 61M

11/10/2019 8:55 am

Had a lot more success when I lived in Cheyenne but mostly talkers here in NW Arkansas.


NudeBeachBum72 72M/72F  
19 posts
11/10/2019 2:33 pm

Have hooked up with a lot of cool and fun people at about 10% ratio, too many lurkers and want to be's!


MayIFillUP 43M
15 posts
11/10/2019 10:31 pm

I have had good luck in meeting women.


Crazyhorse7784 69M
4 posts
11/12/2019 12:09 pm

Yes I have a few times
Had some great sex


ayna45 102M
25 posts
11/17/2019 3:28 am

I haven't had much luck here


chiptopbottom 62M

11/18/2019 7:07 am

I have several new and promising conversations and relationships in the works. I expect to meet in real life soon and have some fun


Lips4ur2Lips247 40M
148 posts
11/25/2019 1:10 am

nope. too many fake profiles, or profiles of users that leads to cam sites. and the one or 2 that's real live on the other side of the country or the planet. And i don't meet many preferences lol


poolman816 51M
47 posts
11/26/2019 12:17 pm

I have had some luck but it is true there are many fakes and it isn't easy getting in touch. I think if the IM worked well it would make this much easier to meet other people.


playtime1909 53M
14 posts
11/27/2019 2:19 pm

mostly miss....people dont meet, disappear, or I get a bad feeling about them...met a few...a couple were fun


pobre_rata 54M
81 posts
11/28/2019 5:05 pm

0, none, thas its my success ratio, a lot of scammers


LightenUp06 63M

11/30/2019 3:24 pm

Yes I have been. Takes effort and patience.


ShibbyWiggles 36M
41 posts
12/12/2019 10:01 am

Pretty much endless misses and like 3 yes'

I like fet.life. a lot more.


unattached4u63 77M
3 posts
12/24/2019 10:50 am

NO luck here.


Takeithard833 36M
14 posts
12/26/2019 8:38 pm

A lot of work sifting through the fakes, also requires patience, and a little luck too. It's harder for standard members then it used to be. With all the fakes and people that back out, tough to justify going for gold again.


bemytreat 49F
6 posts
12/29/2019 2:08 am

no! alot of fakes and time wasters!


readytoplay329 68M/60F

12/29/2019 3:49 am

one must get really lucky to hook up


AZTomH 53M
1 post
12/29/2019 4:06 am

No, so many fakes!

AdultFriendFinder needs to step up their scanning and approval process. Scan the pics to see if they are on other sites from other countries. AdultFriendFinder can obviously see about the person's IP address in being local, if they are in Africa that means they are not in Arizona. Come on AdultFriendFinder step up to keep your paying customers before they stop paying because they are sick of all the BS and crap from fake accounts and scammers!


Abbygurl334cdxxx 42T

12/29/2019 8:46 pm

No success yet.


dspskall 22M
20 posts
12/30/2019 2:03 pm

not really


GreenEyedGuy1968 55M
144 posts
1/1/2020 9:56 am

I voted Yes.
But I would have to add... no, not lately.

I joined in 2004 until 2005 and it was awesome back then. I was in Texas and meeting all over between Killeen-Austin-San Angelo-Dallas-San Antonio.
I joined again 3 years ago just about the time my divorce was final and I met ONE woman for one of the brief times I had Gold status. And I had met her shortly after getting back on here.

I would say I actually had WAY better luck on free and paid vanilla sites than on here in the past 3 years.


Sudden2020 74M
199 posts
1/3/2020 6:14 pm

It all depends on what one wants to call successful, I have run into a few fakes and no shows, but i would say that I have been successful as the number of points I can amass.


chans878 33F
4 posts
1/3/2020 11:43 pm

yeahhh


chans878 33F
4 posts
1/3/2020 11:49 pm

hmmmm


Funguysnj 50M

1/4/2020 5:19 am

Some people need a reality check. Dont expect to be hooking up with people 20 to 30 years younger than you. And if your ugly, no shiybyour noy getting laid without paying


k_medtraveler 55M
8 posts
1/8/2020 6:10 am

I have met a couple of people from this site but mostly no-shows. Those who say they are willing to meet, actually are not.
I've had better success from other social media sites. I am willing to travel and meet IRL if someone i swilling.


NRHhotwife 53M/49F

1/10/2020 5:47 am

So far we have meet to men from this site both have been great, it is not easy finding a great match but is out there.

Just need to be patient and select carefully.

You can tell when people are real once you start chatting with them and that also gives you an idea of the chemistry.

Some are looking for a one night thing others for a longer friendship and there are so many variables that is not as easy as some think.

But it can happen


msexcited69 58F

1/16/2020 2:06 pm

I have hooked up with a couple of guys on here that are great and have the same sexual desires that I do.


Handleyankee3 34M

4/27/2020 11:40 am

I have been loving it


CougarsCuck 67M
4 posts
5/16/2021 11:42 am

Yes many times, it's not hard to find a willing guy.

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